Your Self Talk is your secret weapon for success in whatever you do, no doubt about it. What you tell yourself about your circumstances, options, challenges, opportunities, strength, and abilities, determines, MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE, what you will become, and what you will achieve in life. Your self talk is a prophecy of your future. I can predict what you will do by what you say. And what you do determines what you achieve in life.
Talk Like a Winner
Winners never say, “IF I win”, or “I’ll TRY”, or “I’ll do my best”, or “I hope”. They believe in themselves, they are self disciplined, the have high self-esteem, and they they expect to succeed. They say, “I WILL”, “WHEN I win”, and “I CAN”. And they mean it.
Think Like a Winner
Victors tell themselves, “I can handle anything. I am unstoppable. I and strong and focused. I’m a lean, mean, money machine. I never quit. Every day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. “I believe it and I will achieve it.” They consistently act in spite of the opinions of others. They don’t allow losers to get in their way. They have high self respect, they set their own standards, and they make no excuses. They never fear the opinions of other people. They are honest and outspoken. Read the words of Winston Churchill and General George S. Patton.
Act Like a Winner
Listen to what a boxer says before his fight, and you can accurately predict if he will win or not. Think of Mohammad Ali. Achievers take responsibility for thier lives and choices, and they don’t make excuses. Control your self talk, and you control your destiny. A congruent lifestyle empowers winners, and they never compromise their values. Winners are eagles, warriors, and visionaries. Read “The Fountainhead” by Ayn Rand.
Live “Unconquered”
“Invictus” is a favorite short poem of mine, by the British poet William Ernest Henley. The title is Latin for “Unconquered”. It was first published in 1875. At the age of 12, Henley became a victim of tuberculosis of the bone. In spite of this, in 1867 he successfully passed the Oxford local examination as a senior student. His diseased foot had to be amputated directly below the knee; physicians announced the only way to save his life was to amputate the other. Henley persevered and survived with one foot intact. He was discharged in 1875, and was able to lead an active life for nearly 30 years despite his disability. With an artificial foot, he lived until the age of 54. “Invictus” was written from a hospital bed.
INVICTUS
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find me, unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul.
